To grow a large, powerful social movement, we must meet people at their current level of understanding, build relationships of trust as we work together, and kindly challenge each other when we see oppressive culture or ignorance within our movement. We need to believe that people, including our own selves, can learn and grow, and support each other to do so. This includes an openness to giving and receiving feedback, being self-reflective, being open to forgiveness and working together to improve our ways of relating.